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Allen,

You can delete the trigger 'Notify when guest connects to unconnected support or meeting session' to eliminate these emails.

 What extensions do you have installed on your instance?

(go to Administration Page->Extensions to check)

It looks like you may have an extension installed that is causing that dialog to appear.

Unfortunately, this isn't technically possible at this time, as the Host client does not have awareness of the web server.

We have added a delay in version 19.0 that keeps the machine in the session group for 600 seconds (by default) once the Chat tab is selected. 

The value is AcknowledgeMessageDelaySeconds.